This sex toy in your purse is tiny and sleek and can turn him on in 60 seconds or less. You'll never look at your cell the same way again.
It has carnal capabilities...a passion prop in disguise. Use your cell phone to channel your inner sex goddess.
Sexting is the art of text messaging sexually suggestive or explicit images or words to build arousal.
Sexting is like phone sex...only you aren't talking to the man directly you are sending text messages and photos.
Sexting can be an erotic and provocative way create and amplify sexual tension.
One or two suggestive texts...priceless. Twenty smutty texts sent one right after another... enough to make him have you permanently blocked from his cell phone.
Don't become the dreaded "Questionator" ...firing off one question after another. It is irritating and he will lose interest.
Especially when in the throes of new love...there is such a thing as too much texting. The hotter a new man is...the less you should be texting him. Firing off too many messages can kill a budding relationship.
Don't show your face in a sexy photo you send. Think plausible deniability. If you'd be embarrassed for your mom to see it... think twice before sending it. Even if this man still likes you...he will very possibly share a hot picture with all his friends.
Sext under the influence and you may text the wrong thing or the wrong person. You wouldn't want to accidentally send a provocative photo to your boss after a long night of drinking.
Texting is conversation in slow motion.
Don't try to use text like you would speak...text moves about a tenth as fast as normal conversation. Use the extra time in the situation to your advantage.
Don't text back immediately expecting an immediate response.
Wait at least as long or longer to respond as it took him to get back to you. Making him the one waiting for you means you are setting the pace.
Let him wonder why you don't seem quite as interested as he is...and he might try harder.
If he doesn't text you back right away...it ISN'T okay to send him another text.
Never send more than one text at a time. He sends a text...then you reply. Get a text...send a text.
Don't ever send multiple texts without getting a response from the first one!
The truest sign of a man's interest...assuming you've been on a few dates...has to do with when he's sending his texts.
If he texts you sometime between noon and 5 p.m...he's waited just long enough not to look desperate...but he's leaving enough time for the two of you to make solid plans. Any text after that means you're an afterthought or his other plans fell through and he wants to get out of his house.
Anything after 11 p.m. is a booty call.
If he texts you at 4 a.m. with "hye baby im drnkn and i wana see u. come outsid" ...forget about him.
When you are text a man he is testing you to see if you are needy... funny...intelligent...or just good for sex. Use this opportunity to present your most attractive image.
Less is more. Edit your messages down...remove rather than add something. Keep it lean and interesting...not fat and dull.
When you are texting...you have time to be interesting and fun and to be the exciting person that is really you.
Write something funny. Make him smile. Playful and funny is an attractive way to text. A good sense of humor is a turn on. Read more in... Be Even More Irresistible to Him By Using Humor from Success With Men...7 Ultimate Secrets.
Unless you know this man very well and he's sent you an explicit text... it's sexier to write something clever than raunchy.
Use innuendo instead of being overtly sexual at first.
You want to be playful and challenging instead of "nice". You don't want to be his "nice friend".
Instead...be unpredictable and intriguing. Read more in...Challenge = Attraction from Success With Men...7 Ultimate Secrets.
Leave the details to his imagination and write something suggestive. Remember...you're trying to be kinky...not sleazy.
It is best to avoid using words that overtly sexual until you are in an established sexual relationship with a man. When you do test the water with a few sexy words...you can add a smiley face at the end...just in case he misinterprets what you said.
Text Messaging to Sext Him Up has some examples to get you started with some sexy texting.