Handjob Secrets to Intensify His Orgasm

To intensify your man's orgasm from a handjob... get your man to the point of almost coming...and then pull back just slightly. Stroke him slowly for a couple of minutes and then speed up for ten seconds.

When he's close to coming...place your thumb on his V-spot...and wrap your fingers around the other side of his shaft. Squeeze gently and hold for a few seconds. This will help him suppress his orgasm. An orgasm delayed is an orgasm intensified.

As soon as he's ready to explode...back off the head of his penis and work just the shaft for a while. Do this a few times to make his orgasm even longer and more intense.

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If he's really turned on and hasn't come too recently you may see a volcanic eruption.

If he should suddenly start to lose his erection during the handjob...try more stimulation to the head of his penis. Don't give up if he seems to be taking a long time to climax. Just keep at it and enjoy it.

Be aware of your man's response as you give him a handjob. If he is past the point of no return you need to help him come. Some men cannot tolerate slowing down once they are near orgasm.

You may notice a few drops of pre-cum at the tip of his penis. This liquid may ooze long before he actually orgasms. It can be clear or white...and even a little bubbly. It is slippery and makes an excellent lube. So spread it all around the head of his penis and continue pleasuring him.


Are We There Yet?

About 2-10 seconds after he starts coming...start to slow down...but don't stop. Keep pleasuring him slowly and softly until his last orgasmic contraction finishes.

His semen (cum) will pump out in rhythmic bursts of extreme pleasure. There will be a second or so in between each one. By the fourth burst...the gap between them will increase and their intensity will taper off. His actual orgasm will usually last less than one minute.

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The volume of the ejaculate is about a teaspoon.

His semen is thick and goopy...and clear or white. If he's really turned on...and hasn't come too recently...you may see a volcanic eruption. The volume of the ejaculate is about a teaspoon or so.

When he comes...cup one of your hands over the head of his penis to catch the semen as he ejaculates. Use your other hand to wrap up with a slow massage from the base to the head of his penis until his body stops twitching. Don't stop or slow down until about 10 seconds after he ejaculates...so you don't inadvertently cut him off too soon.

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Subtly wipe your hands off with a towel after he comes.

Wipe your hand off with a towel. But be subtle...the last thing you want to do is to give the impression you are disgusted by his ejaculate...or him.

After he comes, lightly cup his balls with your hands.

Say something like: "You make me feel so turned on. You make me feel so aroused when you come. I love the sight of your penis hard or soft."

After orgasm your man will be hypersensitive around the head of his penis.

If you touch his penis, especially the head, just after ejaculation, it's going to feel almost painful for him. Don't stroke him right after he comes.


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