After female orgasm with a vibrator...you can continue using the vibrator...or switch to your hand during self pleasure. But it may take much more time to orgasm using only your hand for stimulation.
Self pleasure...then go ahead and stimulate yourself during sex. If you aren't able to experience female orgasm from using just your hand...then you can use your vibrator during intercourse.
Try using a vibrator during foreplay with your man. Use a vibe to tease each other into a heightened state of arousal before...and during...intercourse.
Try using toys during intercourse to stimulate your clitoris for an intense female orgasm.
One of your man's secret fantasies could be to use sex toys with you. Men like toys and are fascinated with female genitalia. It will turn him on like crazy…use the toys on him, too.
An easy way to introduce a sex toy to intercourse is to simply leave it out for your man to discover. A tool he has never seen...he'll be curious. Be considerate of his male ego when you produce a new toy. The 12" long phallic shaped one is probably not your best first choice.When you get out a new toy...try saying something like:
It will be easier on his ego if you start with a small remote controlled bullet vibrator...which is less threatening than a large phallus-shaped one. And a small vibe...that fits in a purse or pocket...can be enough to prompt an intense female orgasm.
The Beyond 2000 Ribbed Bullet Mini Vibe($25) is a smooth hard plastic bullet vibrator.
Hold it over your clitoris...and hand him the control. Putting the vibrator in his hands puts him in control of your orgasm...so he still feels like a stud.
Or place the vibe between your bodies when you are on top...and grind against it.
Beyond 2000 Ribbed Bullet Mini Vibe is a smooth hard plastic bullet vibrator. It is about 3" long and 1" in diameter. It is ribbed and tapered and fits in the palm of your hand.
Four AA Batteries give powerful pulsating vibrations. The LED control panel has dual controls with five patterns of vibration and ten levels of intensity of the pulsation on a remote control.
You can also use this with the Raging Bull Cock Ring. Or try the vibrating Raging Bull Cock Ring worn at the base of a dildo for clitoral stimulation for a powerful female orgasm.
But don't insert a small bullet vibe. It can get stuck inside the body.
The We Vibe II ($75) is a silicone vibrator that measures 3.25 inches long and 1 inch wide. The We Vibe II is a dual vibrator that stimulates both your clitoris and G-spot at the same time.
You insert the ribbed G-spot stimulator into your vagina...and the other end goes on your clitoris. The flexible arms comfortably conform to the shape of your body. Both ends vibrate with two vibrating motors for extra power.
You wear it during sex and it turns your body into a vibrator for his penis as it provides deep stimulation to your G-spot. Your pleasure centers are synchronized...your orgasms are riding on the same wave. And your new third partner does all the work...taking you both along for a ride into ecstasy.
It turns on automatically when the two arms open up and something slides between them. This very quiet vibrator is hands-free and about ten times more powerful than a typical bullet vibe.
It lasts on one recharging up to two hours. There are nine different vibration patterns on high and low speeds.
After use...wash it in warm soapy water and rinse it clean.