The last thing you want to do when giving your man a blowjob is to start gagging. But the reality is...it's very common for the gag reflex to kick in when anything...let alone your man's well-endowed penis...is pushed to the back of your mouth.
Gagging will make you salivate as well. Occasionally this can even trigger a vomit response. Choking is a turn off. Giving a great blowjob doesn't require that you reenact a Deep Throat porn scene.
To control your gag reflex...
1. It's best not to deep throat him on a full stomach. Don't go down on him if you're already feeling ill...or have consumed drugs or alcohol that may make you feel queasy. This will make your gag reflex extra sensitive.
2. Use a position where you come down on him from above...like having him lie on his back as you crouch over his crotch. Approaching his penis from above is easier on your palate...and the angle of insertion is excellent for deep penetration.
3. Shift the angle at which his penis is entering your mouth. Shift the angle of his penis from the back of your throat to your cheek.
4. Take his penis slowly to get your throat used to it.
5. It helps to make sure he doesn't thrust. You have to do all the moving.
6. Relax and take a slow deep breath. Remember to breathe while going down on him...this helps a lot.
7. Sync your up and down strokes with your breath. Inhale as you draw him in...and exhale as you pull him out. It will almost seem as if you were breathing him in...sexy! When you exhale...moan to vibrate him in your mouth.
8. Move the head of his penis to the front of your mouth and hold still for a moment until the feeling passes.
9. If you gag easily...give yourself regular breaks from having him in your mouth. Try an alternating pattern with your mouth and hand...take him in your mouth and then back out for a few strokes of your hand...then repeat.
10. Practice on a dildo or penis-sized vegetable before you go down to learn to work with your gag reflex.