You can practice giving a blowjob by yourself.
It is possible to practice oral sex alone. Explore new
blowjob techniques on your own to build
your confidence before unleashing them on your man.
Your mouth is capable of delivering a wide variety of
sensations. But you can't really know how your own
mouth feels unless you try out some techniques on yourself.
Wash your hands. Don't worry about how you look...just
concentrate on how it feels...because it is similar to
how your man will feel when you do it to him.
First try the strokes...licks...and combinations of
suction...that you'll want to incorporate into your
oral arsenal on your fingers.
Use the sensitive hollow of your palm...see how your
lips feel grazing...nuzzling...and kissing your hand.
Press your flattened tongue against your palm...and vary the pressure.
Give your hand a long, slow lick...and repeat with
several licks in
different combinations...
Use your tongue in different positions to change the feeling.
- Flat tongue
- Pointy tongue
- Soft tongue
- Flickers
- Caresses
- Firm strokes
- Writing your name.
You'll notice your tongue dry out...then magically rewet itself.
You may find yourself making a lot of saliva. This is what will
happen when you go down on him...and the extra saliva serves as a
helpful lubricant during oral sex.
Practice to Ramp up Your Skills
Build your sexual confidence as you build your repertoire of techniques...
- Hold your index and middle finger together.
Holding them stiffly...caress the opening of your lips
with your fingertips...as if your fingertips were the
tip of his penis. Slip them in slowly. Feel the wetness
and heat of your own mouth.
Practice for more blowjob confidence.
- Hold your mouth open with your tongue flattened inside.
Gently thrust your fingers along the top of your tongue.
It feels amazingly smooth and warm...and this is what
he's going to feel.
- Squeeze your lips shut around your fingers...and
experiment with increasing and decreasing the suction.
Men like to have their penises licked and sucked to
varying degrees. So it's good for you to know the
difference between a little and a lot of suction.
- Move your fingers in and out. Feel your tongue move
around on your fingers. Test the way the tip...middle...
and edges...of your tongue feel.
- Hum...and see how it vibrates your fingers.
Later on...you can repeat all your practice moves on him.
Find out how much suction he likes by having him suck your
fingers the way he might want his penis sucked. You can
reproduce that suction on his fingers to get it at the
level he likes...and to arouse him in the process.
You can use a dildo to practice your blowjob skills.
- Practice wrapping your mouth around a penis-shaped
sex toy or a peeled cucumber. Do not attempt to deep
throat any of these because they could get lodged in your
throat.
- A dildo with a wide base would be fine since the
base would prevent the entire toy from slipping into your
mouth. Select something as close as possible to the size
of your man's penis.
- Practice on it the way you would on a penis. These
strokes and licks can be repeated on the shaft of his
penis...his balls...and his anus and perineum.
- If you are concerned about gagging...you can see what
your comfort threshold is. Or try pushing it and learn
to tame your gag reflex.