For some extra sexy fun before you give your man a blowjob...
Tell your man to lie down on the bed...then use handcuffs...a scarf...a necktie...or silk stockings...to tie his hands so he can't touch you.
But don't lay him on top of his handcuffed wrists...it's painful and can do nerve damage. Velvet-lined handcuffs are more comfortable than metal ones. From wrist restraints...you can progress to also adding ankle restraints.
As you grind against him and he strains to touch you...say: "Tell me why you want me. If you make it good...I'll untie you."
Slowly kiss your way down his torso. Just as you get to his pelvis...move back up to his neck as you tantalize him and he strains to touch you. Then torture him playfully with your teasing.
Next time...have him tie your hands with a scarf before he tantalizes you with oral sex.
Give you man a trip "downtown"...for violations of the "penal" code. Tell him..."you have right to remain sexy."
I like real handcuffs for this. Check the location of the key...and give him the spare key before beginning.
Or give him a turn as the police officer. You can be a woman arrested for speeding...bent over the hood of her car.
And you don't have to wear a revealing outfit if you are not comfortable with that...yet. Fantasy fun can be had in more conservative outfits.
Bobby pins are a seemingly innocent tool. They can give some serious pleasure to his ultra sensitive nipples, and they work on you, too.
First use the pointy end to lightly draw circles around...but don't quite touch...his nipples.
Then take the sensations up a notch and use the bobby pins as mini-nipple clamps.
The shorter bobby pins have a little less compression than the regular length ones.
The slight pinching will actually feel good and intensify his pleasure.
This is actually a sneaky strategy to determine his desired levels of stimulation...and it can be used throughout a blowjob.
Because your man's excitement levels change throughout the sexual response cycle...this game can be a helpful tool with a less verbal man when you're trying to figure out what he likes.
This adult version of the Red Light, Green Light game helps you find his erogenous zones and can be used at any time during a blowjob...
Tell him that you're going to touch him in different places all over his body.
Tell him what you will touch him with and that you want him to tell you one of three colors...
Take note of what he likes and when he likes it. You'll become an even more unforgettably attentive...and incredibly desirable...lover.
Discover many more sensory enhancement secrets in Chapters 35, 36, 37 and 38 in Fellatio to Blow His Mind...Oral Super Sex.