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Ultimate BJ Secrets
November 18, 2015

Ultimate BJ Secrets

With a tantalizing toolbox of blowjob techniques at your never need to deliver a boring...ordinary...or predictable oral sex. More blowjob skills means more exciting variety.

Try all these techniques and find out what your man likes. If he doesn't like one of your can try another from the huge collection.

There are dozens more techniques in your Fellatio to Blow His Mind...Oral Super Sex Complete Multimedia Course.

And each of the blowjob and handjob techniques can be varied in terms of...

  • Intensity
  • Pressure
  • Speed
  • Timing

If you're feeling unsure about trying something different...take the pressure off yourself by saying: "I'd like to play around with a bunch of blowjob techniques to learn what you like."

That way...there's no pressure on either of you. And you're free to try something new without worrying about getting him off.

Read Him Like a Sexy Magazine

photo of a woman with her hand at her mouth

Eye contact is sexy. Don't focus so much on your technique that you forget to pay attention to your man. Make smoldering eye contact with him occasionally.

Eye contact takes a good blowjob to steamy hot. Watch him closely and see how he reacts. Listen to him breathe...and watch him move to see if you are pleasing him.

Repeat a technique several times traveling up and down his shaft. Go back and forth between techniques.

Vary your...

  • Speed.
  • Techniques.
  • Intensity.

Try long strokes...short, slow strokes...then a rapid in-and-out motion. This will keep him guessing.

If you do what you love...he will love what you do. As long as your teeth are not are on your way to delivering the ultimate blowjob.

1. Master Stroke

This stroke is the foundation of the ultimate blowjob...

  • Keep your hand against your lips...and bob your head up and down.
  • Hold his penis firmly around the base and slide your hand up and down.
  • Gently fondle his shaft...balls...and perineum...with your hands.

2. Circle Him

  • Inhale and lick your lips. Give the skin of his penis an open-mouthed kiss.
  • Roll his penis around in your mouth.
  • Let his penis hit the top... side... bottom... and opposite side of your mouth.
  • Run the head of his penis along the roof of your mouth for a bumpy ridged effect.
  • Make a circular motion with your head. Slowly alternate clockwise and counterclockwise directions.
  • Move your head from side-to-side in a figure eight so his penis is moving around inside your mouth.
  • Have your bottom lip touching his coronal ridge so that his penis bumps against different parts of your mouth.

3. Yes and No

photo of a woman shaking her head

  • Swivel your neck left and right while he's in your are saying "no". It will feel like your mouth is swirling around him.
  • Nod your head up and down like are saying "yes".
  • Keep your very moist lips locked around the shaft of his penis. You should feel your mouth swiveling on his penis.

4. Ice Cream Cone

photo of a woman with her tongue sticking out

A long lick is a classic oral sex technique.

  • Lick the undersides of his balls where the skin joins the perineum with the tip of your tongue.
  • Pretend his hard-on is an ice cream cone that's melting quickly. Start at his balls and take one slow gigantic lick up to the head of his penis.
  • Speed up the long licks...then slow them again.
  • Lick his penis upward with your tongue full, wide and relaxed.
  • Keep licking at different angles. Swirl the melting drops upward and put your entire mouth around the "scoop" on top.
  • Alternate between the sweeping up-and-down strokes and circular motions.
  • Few men can tolerate this for long without having an orgasm. So you'll probably only want to do three or four strokes...unless you are ready for him to cum.

5. V-spot Stimulation

  • Place the tip of your finger on his frenulum...then take his shaft...along with your finger...into your mouth.
  • Pull the head of his penis out of your mouth and lightly give his frenulum a few fast flicks with the stiff tip of your tongue.
  • Return to licking the corona.
  • Tap your tongue rapidly against his frenulum.
  • Run the flat of your tongue along his V-spot with a steady pulsing motion...gently at first...then a little harder. Shake your head from side to side to cover more of the surface.
  • For an erotic change of texture...hold the shaft of his penis with one hand. Stroke side to side on his frenulum with the ridged underside of your tongue...while you work your hand up and down his shaft.
  • Alternate licking with swirling your tongue around the head and brushing your lips against the tip of his penis.
  • Be very careful not to get his frenulum caught between your teeth. The frenulum is one of the most sensitive areas on a man.

For the rest of the 18 ultimate blowjob techniques see Fellatio to Blow His Mind...Oral Super Sex.

Truly yours,

Ella Trudeau

P.S. Do you want to know how to keep your man...and keep him really happy? All my very best secrets on how to do that are here...Secrets to Keep Him.

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